Getting Married in Denmark | Personal Story

I never imagined Denmark would play a role in my wedding plans nor I intended to get married to begin with. I’m Filipino, and sometime in 2019, while living in Vietnam, I met someone who ticked off the list I wanted for a partner – he just happened to be German. The Standesamt in Germany buried us in paperwork: freshly issued documents, endless notarizations, translations, and strict six-month validity windows. I had all the documents, but with the bureaucracy between Germany and the Philippines, keeping them within the six-month validity period was impossible.

Frustrated, we felt stuck. Then we heard a whisper among expats: “Denmark is the Las Vegas of Europe for weddings.” Skeptical but determined, we looked into getting married in Denmark – and it felt like a breath of fresh air. In this guide, I share that journey and a step-by-step roadmap for other international couples (especially those with a German partner) who want to bypass the red tape and say “I do” in Denmark.

PERSONAL NOTE: Note that this guide only applies if one of you (the couple) is German, since apparently different rules apply to different countries. If neither of you is German, please double check with https://familieretshuset.dk/en concerning the documents needed.

Quick Guide in Getting Married in Denmark

• Book a local photographer for this special occasion
• Private guided boat tour with city highlights
• Something unique: food tasting as a wedding celebration.
• Luxury hotels for that honeymoon feel: Nimb Hotel, 71 Nyhavn Hotel, Kokkedal Castle Copenhagen
• Boutique hotels: Babette Guldsmeden, Andersen Boutique Hotel

Getting married in Denmark: The simplest way

Step 1: Gather the required documents. 

Denmark’s documentation requirements are refreshingly simple.

• Passport: Color photos of all pages, including front and back covers and blank pages. Must be high quality.
• EU citizens: Send color photos of both sides in high quality.
• Proof of right to enter/stay in Denmark: See the legal residence page for details.
• Marital status certificate: Only if relevant and from your current country of residence. Not needed if you live in Denmark. You can easily get this from …
• If you live together outside Denmark: Provide a residence certificate (or similar) in the original language and a translation in Danish, English, or German.
• If you have children together: Provide birth certificates in the original language and a translation in Danish, English, or German.
• If you’ve been married before: Provide proof the marriage ended (divorce decree, death certificate, or annulment) in the original language and a translation in Danish, English, or German.
• Some documents may need legalization or an apostille. See the document requirements page.

Image quality tips

• Show the whole document, including edges, covers, and blank pages. You can remove the background using apps like Canva.
• Use a smartphone camera (not a scanner).
• Hold the camera directly above the document with even lighting.
• Avoid glare, reflections, and backlighting.
• Use the highest resolution possible (1600 × 1200 dpi, ~1 MB per page).
• Upload in the original file format – don’t insert into text documents or compress files.

PERSONAL NOTE: We used a private agency to process the papers for us and shelled out €700 for it. In retrospect, it is the same amount of effort to upload all the necessary documents in Familieretshuset. I placed the exact link where to submit your documents and apply for marriage below.

Step 2: Submit your marriage application online via Familieretshuset. 

Denmark handles international marriage approvals through the Agency of Family Law (Familieretshuset). Go to their official self-service portal (available in English) and create an account – you don’t need a Danish MitID as other guides said. You can easily create an account with your own email address. Log in, complete the marriage declaration form with your details (names, contact info), and upload the document scans from Step 1. Double-check everything before submitting – if you forget a document, you’ll need to start a new application.

The application fee is 1,800 DKK (about €240) and is non-refundable. Pay it by credit card in the portal to submit your application. After that, keep an eye on your email. If your documents are in order, approval can be very quick – ours came through in less than a week.

Step 3: Await approval (and respond if more info is needed). 

In many cases, Familieretshuset issues a decision within five business days. If your application is complete and correct the first time, you’ll likely receive an approval email in about a week.

This approval comes in the form of a “Certificate of Marital Status” (essentially a wedding license) valid for a few months. However, if something is missing or unclear, the agency will email you with questions or requests for additional documents. Respond by the given deadline; each round of clarification can add weeks to the process. (During busy periods, cases with corrections go to the back of the queue, potentially delaying approval by up to two months.)

In rare cases, they might even request an in-person interview to rule out marriage-of-convenience concerns. Don’t be alarmed – just provide whatever they ask for. If you’ve been honest and thorough, approval will come. When it does, celebrate! You now have Denmark’s blessing to proceed with the ceremony.

PERSONAL NOTE: We had to redo some photos because they were not clear enough, and since we went through an agency, it created another barrier and more costs. But it worked out within two months.

Step 4: Book your wedding ceremony in Denmark. 

With the approval in hand, it’s time to schedule the actual wedding. In your application, you likely indicated a preferred town or city hall. Now you can reach out to that kommune’s marriage office to book a date. Popular locations (like Copenhagen City Hall or the romantic island of Ærø) can book out weeks in advance, so inquire as early as possible. Keep in mind: some town halls only do ceremonies on certain days (e.g. Fridays), while others offer daily slots. Flexibility helps. We chose Copenhagen for convenience – the City Hall offered a grand, historic venue and had English-speaking registrars.

When booking, you’ll typically send them your approval letter and some ID info; they’ll slot you in and provide details (time, what to bring – usually your passports and two witnesses, though many places can supply witnesses if you’re eloping). Finally, travel to Denmark for your big day. The day before your wedding day, you have to drop

The ceremony itself is brief but beautiful – a few heartfelt words from the registrar, signing the register, and you’re officially married! Denmark issues you a multilingual marriage certificate (in Danish, English, German) on the spot, which is valid internationally with an apostille. Before leaving Denmark, get an apostille stamp on the certificate (the Danish Agency of Family Law or local authorities can advise where) to ensure Germany and other countries recognize it.

PERSONAL NOTE: We got married in Copenhagen. It is was our first trip to Denmark, and we wanted to explore the beautiful capital. Copenhagen’s City Hall is such a beautiful architecture too, and is surrounded by equally beautiful sights. It also helps that there is a lot of restaurants to choose from for a post-wedding celebrations. Since it was just me and my partner, the city hall provided the witnesses, who were the assistants of the registrar practically. We went to the city hall a day before our wedding and provided our passports and residency permits and we were given our time slots.

Step 5: Begin your happily ever after (and handle post-wedding admin). 

Take a moment to bask in the joy – you navigated the process yourselves, without costly agencies, and it worked! After the wedding, you’ll likely want to register your marriage in your home country or in Germany. In Germany, for example, you simply present the apostilled Danish marriage certificate at the Bürgeramt to update your marital status (bypassing the Standesamt’s maze).

Expect a bit of curiosity – Danish weddings are famous now among international couples – but ultimately the recognition is straightforward. Then, enjoy your honeymoon! The next sections of this guide will help with that: from where to stay in Copenhagen, to what to do, where to dine, and even how to capture those memories with a photographer. Our journey taught us that even the most tangled bureaucracy can be overcome – and sometimes the solution is as simple as a scenic detour to Denmark.

What I wish we’d done differently – hiring a photographer in Copenhagen

With my background in photography, I thought bringing my camera and tripod (which was broken) would be enough. It wasn’t. The ceremony, as simple as it was, wasn’t documented the way it should have been. If I’d known how easy it is to book a professional photographer online, I’d have done it in a heartbeat. I could have also recorded the whole ceremony with at least the phone camera mounted on a tripod for safekeeping, but the idea came after the ceremony.

Why it’s worth it – Your Copenhagen wedding or honeymoon is a once-in-a-lifetime event. Having high-quality photos to look back on is worth every cent. As someone usually behind the camera, I wanted both of us in the frame, enjoying our moment without the constant shuffling towards the camera and running next to my husband.

Plan for the best light – Golden hour (just after sunrise or before sunset) gives Copenhagen’s soft northern light a magical touch. In summer, sunsets are late, so you get more time. In winter, daylight fades by mid-afternoon. Weekdays or early mornings mean fewer crowds.

Be clear about style and must-haves – Share a mood board or examples of poses and locations you like. Decide on outfits that complement each other. Even casual clothes look polished if they coordinate.

Consider a photo tour – Some photographers combine guiding with shooting, so you get both a sightseeing experience and professional photos.

Know what’s included – Confirm how many edited and unedited shots you’ll get, delivery time, and whether they can use your images publicly.

Accommodation options in Copenhagen and nearby honeymoon-worthy locations

After the paperwork is done, it’s time to relax and celebrate your marriage. Copenhagen offers everything from opulent historic hotels to cozy boutique hideaways, plus dreamy getaways just outside the city. Below are some luxury and mid-range accommodation options, each with a romantic flair (with candid reviews drawn from real guest experiences on Booking.com):

Nimb Hotel (Luxury, Copenhagen)

Housed in a stunning Moorish-style palace inside Tivoli Gardens, Nimb is Copenhagen’s iconic boutique hotel. It feels plucked from a fairy tale – onion-domed towers lit by thousands of bulbs at night, and a stylish modern interior. Couples rave about the exceptional service and amenities. “Excellent location. The architecture is one of a kind, and the food at the Brasserie is superb. Staff are cordial and made our stay special,” one guest noted. There’s even a rooftop pool and spa. For a splurge honeymoon, Nimb offers a truly magical experience, blending park-view romance with five-star luxury.

71 Nyhavn Hotel (Luxury, Copenhagen)

This elegant hotel sits right on the Nyhavn waterfront, housed in two converted 19th-century warehouses with exposed wooden beams. Its location is unbeatable – at the picturesque harbor where painted townhouses reflect in the canal. Many rooms overlook the water, and couples particularly love the ambiance: historic charm meets modern comfort. The beds are plush and the breakfast is excellent (champagne and balloons appeared for one couple’s anniversary, making it “magical”).

Step outside and you’re on the romantic Nyhavn promenade. For a blend of scenic views and heritage, 71 Nyhavn is a top pick that “couldn’t be better – right on the canal, yet slightly tucked away from the busiest stretch, giving a private feel”.

Andersen Boutique Hotel (Mid-range, Copenhagen)

Tucked in the trendy Vesterbro district, this boutique hotel delivers style and value for couples. The décor is vibrant and modern, and the vibe is relaxed. Guests praise the “smart, modern, relaxed ambience” and the perks like a complimentary wine hour in the evenings. Rooms may be cozy in size, but they’re thoughtfully designed. Its location a few minutes’ walk from Central Station makes it convenient for exploring. For honeymooners who prefer a laid-back, design-forward stay rather than grand luxury, Andersen hits the mark. The intimate atmosphere and friendly service create a homey romantic base to explore the city.

Babette Guldsmeden (Mid-range, Copenhagen)

A charming eco-friendly boutique hotel located near the royal palaces, Babette Guldsmeden offers a bohemian romantic vibe. Each room is individually designed with four-poster beds and Balinese touches. Couples love the cozy, hygge feel – think warm textiles, candles, and claw-foot tubs. There’s a rooftop terrace and even a small spa. It’s centrally located yet feels like a hidden oasis. If you’re a duo that appreciates character over chain-hotel uniformity, this intimate hotel provides romance with a sustainable twist. Plus, you can easily stroll hand-in-hand to the nearby Amalienborg Palace or waterfront.

Kokkedal Castle Copenhagen (Luxury, North Zealand coast)

If you’ve ever dreamed of a castle honeymoon, Kokkedal Slot makes it come true. Located ~30 km north of the city, this 18th-century castle hotel sits on lush grounds near the Øresund Strait. Rooms feature plush décor and views of either the gardens or the sea. The on-site spa and pool invite relaxation. Strolling the manicured grounds feels like a period drama scene.

One guest said it was “a wonderful place like in a fairy tale… the castle’s main building is impressive”, with nature all around. While the castle exudes old-world charm, it offers modern luxury too (fine dining in the vaulted cellar restaurant, etc.). This is a fantastic option for newlyweds to indulge in a royal-treatment stay just a short train ride from Copenhagen.

Marienlyst Strandhotel (Mid-range, Helsingør seaside)

If ocean vistas are more your style, Marienlyst is a beachfront spa hotel about 45 minutes from Copenhagen. It overlooks the Baltic Sea and Kronborg Castle in the distance. Couples recommend booking a room with a balcony facing the water – “the sea view is spectacular… the Baltic is the jewel in its crown”. The hotel combines modern Scandinavian design with resort amenities: spa with infinity pools, beachfront access, and dining with panoramic views.

“Wonderful room and facilities. Love the spa, décor, views,” writes one reviewer. For a romantic wellness retreat, Marienlyst offers great value – you can wander the historic town of Helsingør by day and watch the sunset over the Sound by evening. It’s a memorable mini-honeymoon destination that’s still conveniently close to Copenhagen.

Top 5 restaurants in Copenhagen for a romantic post-wedding meal

After getting married in Denmark, it’s time to toast your marriage with an unforgettable meal. Copenhagen’s dining scene is world-renowned – from Michelin-starred temples of gastronomy to cozy candlelit bistros. We’ve selected five romantic restaurants (a mix of luxurious and mid-range) ideal for a post-wedding dinner. Each offers a special atmosphere for couples, whether you want an extravagant culinary adventure or a warm, intimate dinner for two. Bon appétit!

Mielcke & Hurtigkarl (Fine Dining, Garden Oasis)

Tucked in the Royal Horticultural Gardens in Frederiksberg, this restaurant is the very definition of a hidden gem. Mielcke & Hurtigkarl was crowned Denmark’s most romantic restaurant in 2024  – and for good reason. The dining room is whimsical and artistic, often with floral and nature-inspired motifs, and in good weather you might dine in view of the garden’s greenery. The cuisine is highly creative, a “creative culinary playground” where global inspiration meets local ingredients. Expect a multi-course tasting menu that surprises and delights (they’re known for imaginative presentations and flavor pairings).

Despite the high culinary level, the ambience is welcoming, not stuffy – you’ll feel like guests at an eccentric (and very gourmet) garden party. Service is personal and attentive, making you feel celebrated. For a wedding dinner, this place offers “an artistic, unexpected, and deeply personal dining experience in an enchanting setting”. It’s pricy but if you’re foodies, it will be a highlight of your trip and a meal you’ll reminisce about on anniversaries.

Marchal (Fine Dining, Historic Elegance)

 Located in the iconic Hotel d’Angleterre, Marchal is where you go for old-school luxury with a contemporary twist. The dining room exudes timeless class – think plush chairs, white tablecloths, and a view out to King’s Square. Yet there’s a trendy bar and a vibrant buzz that keeps it from feeling dated. The menu is Michelin-starred, blending Nordic ingredients with classic French finesse. Dishes might include turbot in champagne sauce or exquisite Danish beef with seasonal garnishes. It’s indulgent, but what makes Marchal truly romantic is the sense of occasion it brings – you’re dining in a place that’s been a part of Copenhagen’s history since 1755.

“Refined Nordic and French cuisine in a setting that feels more like an exclusive members’ club than a formal banquet hall,” is how one review described it. Indeed, the atmosphere is sophisticated yet intimate – perfect for dressing up and celebrating in style. The wine list is superb (don’t miss seeing their floor-to-ceiling wine cellar). And if you mention it’s your post-wedding dinner, expect extra pampering. Marchal lets you dine like royalty – a romantic reward after all your wedding planning.

Søllerød Kro (Fine Dining, Fairytale Inn) 

For a truly romantic escape, consider dining at Søllerød Kro, a Michelin-starred restaurant set in a 17th-century inn north of Copenhagen. This thatched-roof inn by a pond feels like stepping into a fairy tale – it’s outside the city (about 20 minutes drive or taxi), but many locals swear it’s the most romantic dining spot in Denmark. The restaurant has several small, elegant rooms with fireplaces and antique decor, exuding intimacy. “A characterful 17C thatched inn by a pond in a picturesque village, with a delightful courtyard terrace and three elegant, intimate rooms,” notes the Michelin Guide. In summer, you might dine in the courtyard under chestnut trees; in winter, by candlelight indoors.

The cuisine is French/Nordic gourmet – beautifully presented and delicious (classic at heart, but with modern finesse). The wine list is legendary, so consider splurging on a great bottle to toast your nuptials. This is the kind of place where the staff know it’s a special night without you even saying so – service is gracious and unhurried. If you’re up for a short journey, Søllerød Kro delivers a timeless romantic dinner that feels a world away – yet you can be back at your hotel in Copenhagen with ease afterward.

Høst (Contemporary Nordic, Cozy Mid-range)

If you’re seeking something stylish but not too expensive, Høst is a fantastic choice for couples. This Bib Gourmand restaurant is famed for its award-winning rustic-chic design – think bare wood tables, dried wildflowers, and soft candlelight creating an “earthy and appealing” ambience. The atmosphere is intimate and relaxed (it’s often noted as a great date spot). Høst offers a reasonably priced tasting menu of New Nordic cuisine – courses highlighting seasonal Scandinavian produce with creative twists. Expect dishes like tender local lamb with foraged herbs, or a dessert presented in a flowerpot (their presentations can be playful).

It’s the kind of meal where each course is a delightful surprise, often with little “extra” bites between courses. Portions are well-paced, giving you time to converse and savor. A reviewer mentioned, “the service is solid, food delicious, and ambiance very natural and cozy”. Indeed, at Høst you get gourmet touches without formality – the staff are friendly and the vibe is hygge. For a post-wedding dinner, Høst strikes a lovely balance: it feels special occasion (because of the beautiful setting and plated dishes) yet is warm and unpretentious, putting you both at ease. Plus, it won’t break the bank, which is a nice bonus in pricey Copenhagen.

Kødbyens Fiskebar (Seafood, Trendy Mid-range)

For a change of pace, how about a romantic dinner with a hip Copenhagen flair? Kødbyens Fiskebar is located in the old Meatpacking District (Kødbyen) and has become a beloved spot for seafood lovers and couples who enjoy a lively atmosphere. The setting is industrial-cool – a converted warehouse with concrete floors and an open kitchen – yet it manages to feel chic and candlelit at night. “The industrial-style setting adds unique charm, offering a buzzy atmosphere for diners,” as one description puts it. If you both adore seafood, this is heaven: ultra-fresh Danish oysters, ceviche, seared scallops, turbot, Nordic lobster – the menu focuses on simple, beautifully presented sea-to-table dishes. You can dress up or down here; it’s not stuffy at all.

Despite the energy of the place, we found a small corner table and felt in our own world, sampling oysters and champagne to celebrate. The service is enthusiastic and knowledgeable – the staff will happily guide you through oysters or natural wine pairings. It’s a place where you can laugh, feed each other bites of silky fish, and soak up a young, cosmopolitan vibe. A Google review from a visitor captures it well: “The food was immaculate… staff helpful and cheerful, explaining everything. I couldn’t recommend it more – definitely a must-try in Denmark!”. For a trendy yet romantic night out, especially if you bonded over foodie adventures, Fiskebar is an excellent choice to cap off your wedding trip.

Each of these restaurants offers something unique – whether it’s the enchanting garden creativity of Mielcke, the historic glamour of Marchal, the storybook village charm of Søllerød, the modern Nordic coziness of Høst, or the vibrant seafood indulgence at Fiskebar. Be sure to reserve well in advance, as Copenhagen’s popular spots fill up (several take reservations online). And if one is fully booked, don’t despair – Copenhagen has no shortage of wonderful eateries. The key is: a great meal in this city tends to engage all the senses, which makes it an ideal way to celebrate your new life chapter. Skål (cheers) to love and good dining!

Getting married in Denmark is refreshingly simple compared to many other countries, but it’s the little extras that make the day unforgettable. From booking a local photographer to wandering Copenhagen’s charming streets, adding personal touches ensures your wedding isn’t just legally binding – it’s a day you’ll look back on with real joy.